Surgery, My Fiance Being In The Hospital & Why I Walked Away From The Money

 

This post may seem a little weird to some of you, but the rest of you who are on my mailing list, you’ve probably already come to to realization that I’m on this new “kick” where I just speak my mind – so you won’t find it strange at all!

So what this really means is that moving forward – some days you may get marketing tips from me, while other days you may get a post about making lots of money with me and how you can join me and team

And other days… you may just see a post from me about why I’m doing what I do and all why any of this stuff even matters to me…

And why I think it important that it should matter to you too…

Now if you’ve been reading my blog for any period of time then you know by now that I typically don’t share too much about my personal life but today I felt the need to share some things with you guys.

So hang on tight… here we go!

There’s been some things that have been happening lately in my life that have really been making me stop and take more notice which is why you keep hearing me say that I want to help more people and change more lives…

A few months ago… literally out of the blue my fiance suddenly become seriously ill and had to have emergency surgery.

Pam & Lamont

Now what’s odd is that although my guy is not a spring chicken… he’s been in pretty decent shape!

Aside from some issues with his back, he’s always been a fitness fanatic and never been more than a couple of pounds over weight – if that much.

He eats pretty healthy, works out religiously, doesn’t drink, smoke or have any other taboo habits – other than working out too much! ;o)

Yet out of the blue –  this relatively healthy man – suddenly got sick…

And we suddenly found ourselves dealing with a health crisis that included daily medications to control the issues and a series of surgeries to try to correct them.

So what’s my point?

Well the first thing I had to do was try to reschedule a lot of coaching calls and consulting clients but as the situation progressed I eventually ended up cancelling all of them.

And as I spoke to a few of them and told them why I was cancelling a few of them told me their stories of how they were in similar situations but felt “trapped” and didn’t know what they could do…

I’m gonna be honest with you…

I knew that letting go of my clients was going to cost me BIG TIME

Because even though I started making money right away with my new business the truth of the matter is I could not replace my income quick enough.

But I was I willing to take that risk….

Because I realized that at that moment while I was sitting in the emergency room… and he was laying there with all of those wires and tubes hanging from everywhere that he needed me…

And no matter what I was going to be there for him like he had been there for me for the last 4+ years…

When my house foreclosed on…

When my car was repossessed…

And when I had no money and had no clue what I was going to do.

You see… when I saw the man that I love, the man that I plan to marry this summer just laying there with fear in his eyes…

Looking scared and worried…

And with tears streaming down his face…

I knew that I needed to be there for him.

And at that very moment in time it didn’t matter how much I was making…

Or what I was doing…

I was willing to walk away from it ALL!

And as I’ve mentioned to you guys before – the entire experience was an eye opener because it made me realize that I needed to be FREE

FREE to do what I wanted to do when I wanted to…

FREE to travel whenever and wherever I wanted to…

FREE to live my life on my own terms without restrictions…

And although I am not totally where I want to be, within the last 4 months I have been working towards turning that dream into my reality!

Over the last couple of weeks you may not have heard from me as frequently as you normally do…

Well that’s because after I came back from a trip from Chicago we had a couple of surgeries scheduled so I have been out of the loop…

The first time he got sick it was stressful because I had clients and I had to cancel them…

This time I did not because now my business runs 24/7 on autopilot!

So even when I’m not available my business continues running and making money for us!

For example… last week when we was out of town I didn’t have internet access for an entire week yet I made money pretty much every day while I was away…

And get this…

When I returned I had money in my account waiting for me which I used to pay our car payments, insurance and utilities.

And this past friday I received another payment with enough to cover my mortgage payment!

Pam Lawhorne

Now the reason I have a picture of our cars is not to impress you but more so to make an impression upon you that we are not driving some broke down, busted piece of crap cars.

And trust me when I say that our car notes are not $200 a month either!

Now there’s nothing wrong with living frugally, if you want to, but there’s also nothing wrong with having nice things if you desire to have them in your life too.

You see the only difference is that I no longer want to work long, grueling hours to make money, own a nice car or live in a beautiful hour and take vacations.

And I also don’t want to stop dreaming or give up everything I’ve been working so hard for either!

That’s why now instead of working harder I’ve learned to work smarter and leverage my knowledge and time.

This is my reason WHY!

I want to LIVE and enjoy all that life has to offer - PERIOD!

I want to have a life that is free from boundaries and limitations…

And I want to share what having FREEDOM feels like with YOU if you will accept my offer…

So today I want to help 10 people move into their destiny with a mission…

A Mission to become FREE…

If you have been looking for a REAL way that you can retire – not in 20 years, or 10 years or even 5 years.

But within the next 6-12 months then THIS IS FOR YOU!

Join me and let me show you how you can begin living the life of your dreams and start living a life of purpose right now!

Success & Blessings!

PS. If you’re not on my mailing list then you probably missed the message I sent out the other day but you can read it here.

My vision and my goal is to help 10 people realize an income of at least $10,000 within the next 90 days and 25 people make their first $5,000 online.

It’s not really about the money… it’s about what you can do when you have the money and how your life will drastically change once you no longer have to struggle to figure out how to get money.

Join forces with me today and together we can change even more lives!

Wealth With Pam

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  • http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=376422412424422 LeKeisha Lopez-Marketing Mom

    This is a fantastic blog post, I LOVE IT!

  • http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1036896952 Pam Lawhorne

    Thank @[1195118031:2048:LeKeisha Lopez]! I just wanted to kind of take the time to explain to folks WHY I’ve been MIA and went sorta mushy on them. LOL. I think they’re so use to me being so content focused… and lately I’ve been like who cares about that stuff! None of it matters in the end right? ;o) I appreciate your feedback girlie! Love ya!